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I am having pretty good results with 400,600,1000,1500 (all wet) then a few stages of buffing. Rubbing compound, Medium Cut, Fine Cut, and I am about to use swirl remover.
The main point to remember is not to go any rougher than you really need to to remove the material you need to remove. In my case I was sanding down orange peel left over from my spray job. I first tried 1000, it was tons of work, so I switched to 600 (still a lot of work) and then finally lowered to 400 (cut the peel very quickly). You can always start high and go lower but never the other way around when trying to determine what grit to use.