The first 1 refers to the number one connector which is the lower right one. The next set of numbers tells you the position of the wire where 1 is the bottom right and counts to the left when looking at while connected. There are 3 rows of pin connectors, 8 in the bottom, 7 in the middle, and 8 on the top row, so 23 pin connectors although some may have blanks in the them. Then there are 3 blade connectors above those which are 24, 25, and 26 again going right to left. So, bottom right is your 1-1 wire and 1-21 is in the top row of pins third from the left.
Or, you could just find the pink and pink/black wires since those are for the fuel level resistance circuit which is what you are looking for. Those mpems are known for failing with not reading the fuel level circuit internally.