Do you have the rubber check valve that goes under the washer? I'm not sure that the washer is special or not. Basically it applies a force to the rubber to hold it in place so the fuel doesn't leak out of the chamber and the fuel pump lose prime when the engine is off. If you can't find the washer there is a good chance it is nothing special other than Stainless Steel standard (I think maybe a 1/2 washer).
If you want to get technical.... If someone has the fuel module apart perhaps they could measure it along side a standard Stainless Washer of the same size and weighing it.
I'd feel pretty confortable just putting a stainless washer on top and giving that a try. If I wanted to check that I'd start the ski, let is sit a few hours and put the fuel pressure gauge on there, insert the key and see how quickly the pressure come up. I think the pump runs for a second when you insert the key. When I replace the the filters as you are doing the initial insertion of the key I get very little pressure then it builds up after about 3 insertions and I am at 56 or so pounds. After that the pressure is up on one insertion.
Also... keep a good level of fuel in these skis. The fuel helps keep the fuel pump cool.
Long wind way of saying.... put a regular washer on there and ride it like you stole it !! LOL