When all other possibilities have been investigated whatever is left is likely true.

Yes they disintigrate into little pieces. When it happens it happens quickly.
There should be (4) retaining screws and when you go back in with the wear ring you put Loctite or equivilent around the perimiter. The wear rings on those pumps fit more loosely than some of the others and require loctite.
I can't find my picture but I slide a small piece of clear fuel line hose over the drill bit "as a stop" so I don't go too deep when drilling the wear ring to receive the screws. you have to pay attention because the screws will PUSH on the wear ring and push it away from the bore. Sometimes you can add a small washer if you chicken out and don't drill deep enough. It is a bit tedious.

Pay attention to that. Good Luck !!